Monday, September 21, 2009

A Pile of Cash, Some Bald Kids, and a Medal


Thank You! You did it.

The Walkathon raised over $50,000. And you made something extra special happen. Because of your very generous response, Von raised over $3,000, more than any other team at this very large event.

He was called to the front to be recognized for it and he thought this was his cue to unpack his bag full of money andhand it over. He eagerly kept pulling dollar bills by the handfulls out of his bag and shoving them in the Director's hands while bills were being blown around in the wind. It was fun to watch Von get the concept of giving back and taking so much delight in it.


The starting line looked curiously like my high school prom decorations.

Von got to walk with Olivia, who is battling the same kind of Cancer he has and is just a few months behind him in treatment protocol.
Michelle, Lacey, Angel and Deanna raised their own funds on Von's behalf without ever having met him. Amazing people!
Vienna poured her heart into the fun run. (I like to think she gets her legs from her dad.)

Elle was still going strong at the finish line and could have run a few more laps.

And Sofie ran with the grace and the strides of a gazelle. She also beat a boy, I might add.


The the most significant part of the day for me personally was seeing Von run in the fun run for the 4 and 5 year olds.

I thought the little kids were running fifty yards to the orange cones as the finish line. The kids took off and I could see Von hobbling with his shoulders tucked and his elbows thrust out side to side trying to keep up. Because the drugs have affected his legs, he has to wear braces and...well...I just couldn't wait for him cross the orange cones not too far from the start line and be done with it.

As the kids kept running past the orange cones, it dawned on me that Von was going to have to run the entire way around this half-mile lap. I saw kid after kid passing him and as each one did, he would look over his left shoulder and watch the person pass. I knew he would never make it.

As a dad, I wished I could run for him and then without realizing it found my feet moving in a mad sprint to catch up with him before he got discouraged and turned back. I saw him ahead, still getting passed and slowing each time he saw someone overtake.

I caught up to him and pulled up on his left in silence. He looked over to see who was passing him, almost at a walk now, and then raised a tired and discouraged face.

His eyes met mine and a smile of recognition exploded on his face. And he said something profound that made me feel like a million dollars. He just said, "Dad!".

We ran together, me encouraging him and him throwing is elbows out in a renewed effort to go fast. I even had him dangle from my hand as I jogged and helped him get caught up to the group.

He crossed the finish line pretty spent from the long run but got a participants medal. You could say I'm a proud dad.

Why was that the highlight of my day? It made me think of this past year and the many who have given generously, have come alongside our family, who have prayed, extended grace, communicated, and cheered us on. It made me think that we, like Von, sometimes needed to be carried a little...and you were there.

Thank You!

19 comments:

Pan Cratius said...

Thanks, Jason, this was my devotional read for the day, it got me off to a great start. I vicariously ran alongside of you...could feel it, sense it, see it, and smell it. We too sense you are winners. Great.

Oma Roberta said...

This brought more tears to my eyes as I was reminded how this is how the Holy Spirit encourages us and comes along side to give us hope in our daily race. You are a great dad and example to us all, Jason. Thanks for sharing Lisa and Von with us this past week. It was a winner as well!!

Shan said...

A pile of cash, some bald kids, a medal, AND a bucket of tears!

They are of course tears of joy that we shed with you in this significant race against cancer.

Great job Rovens one and all!! xo

Anonymous said...

Jason, you are a wonderful Dad!! I really enjoyed seeing the joy in Von's face. God Bless

Debbie

Jamey Clayberg said...

You guys put the "rock" in ROCK ON! Love it. Way to go Von, and way to go family, you guys are inspiring and may He bless you for who you are.

jennifer... said...

Well I didn't expect to cry this morning but I am.....  Von's bright, infectious smile is one of victory on many levels.  We are SO THANKFUL he got to have this day! 

The Urbans said...

Man I wish I could have been there to see that!

Anonymous said...

This is such an awesome piece of writing! WOW! You really know how to take us there.
I laughed, I cried, I love it and all of you!
Gwen

Linda said...

What a precious post. I'm smiling through the tears! You have a gift for writing and should be publishing some of your own writings! Your family is so beautiful and we continue to believe that the Lord is going to continue to run alongside you on this journey! Blessings!

Anonymous said...

This post brought tears to my eyes. Incredible! Von, thanks for hanging in there and for your incredible courage, and to your Dad, thanks for running with you. Your family is a blessing.

Holley's friend Linda M.

Tally said...

Well, Shan warned me and she was right. TEAR. JERKER. Great job to all of you!! I can't tell you how awesome it has been to keep up with you guys through your blog. Thank You Jason! Praise the Lord for all that he's done for Von and all of you.

Anonymous said...

I was crying last night when I read this - so much so that I couldn't post a comment. Von -you are BEAUTIFUL (ask your mom to explain). I am praising God for the last year in your life as well as your family's.

Shereea Butler

Nate said...

So awesome.

Anonymous said...

That is so wonderful! It made me teary eyed! It really is a real life example of how Jesus carries us when we need him!
Yolanda

Joyce said...

Look at all that beautiful hair on Von's head! Not that he isn't adorable without hair, but..... still a beautiful sight.

Rachel said...

Wow. Congrats to Von and the Rover family for raising so much! I wish we could have been there to run with him.

Your story about helping him cross the finish line had me getting all teary eyed!

Brett and Betsy said...

I was trying to read this out loud to my husband, but couldn't finish because I was crying. We've been praying for Von. (I'm Melody Murray's sister, Betsy) We'll keep praying for full and miraculous healing. I'm so thankful for all the ways you've seen the power of God during this time. And, btw, I can't believe how big your kids are.

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